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When Your Favorite Streamer Becomes an Only Fans Model

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An Only Fans model?

I’m a huge fan of Youtube creators, especially those who create videos about reviewing movies and television shows. I kind of got into watching this genre of Youtube shortly after my ASMR phase, which I originally got into because I had a lot of trouble getting enough sleep, or falling asleep initially.

Somehow, the Youtube algorithm made a recommendation to me years ago, pointing at a video that had some young woman reviewing a movie (probably Star Wars: A New Hope) and a relationship was born. I think I saw the actual movie three or four times in the past (right from when it was released) but since focusing on Youtube reviews, I’ve probably seen cut-up versions of that movie over one hundred times.

I should explain how a review works on Youtube. They can’t show the whole movie (as that would be illegal), but over the years the formula has been to show about forty minutes of a 90 minute to 120 minute film in a cut-up fashion with the “creator” commenting and reacting throughout that time, sometimes as additional footage or with commentary while pieces of the movie play in unison with the commenter. It’s about the next best thing to sitting in a theater with some loud individual who makes comments as the film is playing overhead. And this way, you don’t get shooshed by random people in the theater because your date is being obnoxious.

You see, years ago, before Youtube even became a thing, I used to accompany people to the movie theater (usually a young attractive woman, but sometimes guy friends), and as long as that person hasn’t seen the movie already, I seemed to be in a bit of heaven myself. I love watching the reaction of someone I’m friends with (or attracted to) as they watch a movie I’ve seen, especially if it’s their first time.

This has developed a community of commenters who make content which usually has the words “First Time Viewing” in their titles. This tells people like me that they’re discovering the magic of a movie while I get to watch their reactions. I can’t tell you how thrilled I get when I watch someone discover something for the first time (like…spoiler incoming for the two people in the universe who don’t know this already…that “Luke, I am your father! (a misquote from the movie, but you get the point.))

Over the years, I have found myself more interested in young, female reviewers, which makes a bit of sense because I’m a guy, and I just enjoy watching beautiful women more than some other guy. I don’t apologize for that.

But because of this consistency, what I have started to observe is a phenomenon that happens within this community: I’m not the only guy who also becomes fans of these young, attractive women. When I first started watching these reviews, they would generate hundreds of views whenever they plopped out another video. As time went on, the more attractive of them would tend to gain more and more followers as they released more videos. Whereas they first started out with hundreds of views, now they get tens of thousands of views, and their subscriber counts have gone from hundreds of followers to tens of thousands of followers as well. Some even higher than that.

So, it probably shouldn’t be a stretch to imagine that because these young women get a decent amount of money in revenue sharing payments with Youtube, they start to realize that they can make a great deal of money. In the beginning, it might be enough to add a substantial amount of money to their monthly paychecks they would get from a regular job to being enough to survive on this income alone. And then as they gain more followers, they start getting offered sponsorship deal (like a professional athlete) to sell brands to their followers, which makes the money flow even better, so that they start to think of themselves as some sort of rock star, bringing in more money than they ever could raise just doing regular work.

The same thing happened with some of the ASMR stars. They became huge stars and made a great deal of money for themselves. It was a different sort of influencer community, but lucrative.

However, one of the things I started to notice is that this coincided with the advent of the adult work community. Only Fans became a thing at this time, which I don’t think was much of a coincidence. Before that, the sponsorship “deal” was the general ending of the road to fame in this crowd. But then, after Only Fans, suddenly there was a much more lucrative direction one of these creators could latch onto going forward.

When this tie occurred in the beginning, a young woman would link her Only Fans connection in her videos, and her income stream would increase dramatically. However, at some point Youtube struck back against this and started removing content of young women who tried to link their dirty content with their wholesome Youtube videos. So, they had to become a bit more elusive about such connections.

But the fact that they made such great strides with Youtube served to funnel young boys and men into their adult content, and some of them really wanted to build such connected communities. And usually they did that by linking their Youtube content to their own web sites, which then had the linkage to their Only Fans content.

I’ll be honest. While I tended to flock towards young, attractive streamers, I have never been a fan of adult content. I appreciated them for their content reviews, and I have had no desire to see them naked or worse. Now, I understand I don’t speak for the majority, but I am capable of speaking for me. I have a lot of respect and admiration for those who create those videos, but once they cross that line, my immediate (and unchangeable reaction) is to unsubscribe to them on Youtube. And even though the algorithm tries to recommend their content a few times after, once the algorithm discovers that I don’t go back down that rabbit hole, I never see anything about, or from them, again. A year or so down the line, the algorithm might try to recommend them to me again, but once I don’t follow that suggestion, they disappear from any of the movies offered to me.

One of the things that I hate more than anything is when a young woman decides to go down that route. I completely lose respect for her, and unfortunately, it’s something that never comes back.

It’s very similar to the struggle many young women are discovering today. They see Only Fans as an easy way to make money. A lot of money. But once they’ve gone down that road, they can’t ever gain those fans and followers again. It’s the same thing with relationships. No matter how attractive she is, once she takes that road, she has serious trouble ever finding someone to date for the future. Oh, she’ll get a lot of guys interested in her, but definitely not interested in an actual relationship. And that’s something they discover when it’s too late to turn back. Higher quality guys, discovering even a hint of such a promiscuous back ground, want nothing to do with them no matter how much they wish it wasn’t that way.

I’m the same way with the videos I watch on a daily basis. And it’s not like I intend to date or marry any of these women; I mean, honestly, they have no idea who I am in real life, so it’s not like we were dating with the possibility of ever being married.

I just don’t invest my time in someone who goes that direction. And that means even in watching their videos.

I don’t indulge in paying any attention to porn stars, so why would I invest in knowing anything more about an Only Fans model? Just not my thing.

And as it’s me investing my time, I prefer someone who appears much more wholesome than that. And because it’s my time and my dime, it’s my choice.

It was her choice, too. And as I read through the comments in their videos, I realize I’m not the only one.

I’ve also noticed that when I read such comments after their videos, those comments quickly disappear. Which means women creators care, too. But by then, it’s too late.

OnlyFans Backtracks on Its Plans to Ban Porn

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When I first found out that OnlyFans decided to allow pornographical material to continue, yet subscribers are still deciding to jump ship, my first thought was: It’s amazing what happens after everyone decides to jump ship after you make a stupid, horrible decision. This is a lot like that one time I told my billionaire, bikini supermodel astrophysicist girlfriend we should probably see other people. Didn’t go the way I planned.

The point is: OnlyFans has a spotted history as it is, and then once it revealed it was pursuing the dollar in hopes of becoming more mainstream, and then losing practically all of its subscriber base, they retracted, they did pretty much what ever critic of the site has believed was going to happen as a natural stage of evolution. At some point, they were going to stab themselves in the foot and then wonder why it hurts so much to keep on walking.

What’s interesting is that OnlyFans didn’t start out as a site geared around promoting sex workers. It was designed as one of those sites that hoped to attract celebrities who would use it to communicate with their fans. And then a guy who ran a cam girl site bought a controlling interest and then pimped it out to the cam girls who used his site. In a very short amount of time, it became known as a sex-friendly site, and then the pandemic hit. The rest is, well, history.

The site would probably continue to grow (and still might) on the backs of sex workers, but as often happens in this kind of situation, the owners ran afoul of payment processers who refuse to have anything to do with this industry. And thus, the situation that emerges today (after the backlash of starting to realize that its bread and butter was starting to jump ship and those that they wanted to attract still consider the site to be one that is cloaked in porn.

But this isn’t the first time this has happened in the Internet era. Pornhub went through this problem before (and survived) as did, and might even again, Patreon. Similarly, years back, during the early days of the Internet, I was a web designer for an adult bookstore, and the Internet service company they used had been sex positive, as was the manufacturer of the bookstore’s shopping cart. Well, one weekend in the middle of the night, the bookstore owner received an angry communication from the company that made the shopping cart, calling her all sorts of derogatory names and indicating that his company could no longer continue doing business with a purveyor of filth, immediately cutting off all access to the shopping cart. Shortly after that, the web site provider also contacted her and said something similar, stating that their company refused to do business with a porn business. Keep in mind, both of these companies had been profiting from an association with her company for over four years before these announcements and there had never been any concerns in the past. As a matter of fact, they had actually gone through lengths to get her business in the first place.

So, almost overnight, I had to find her a new Internet web site provider and then ran into a wall of companies that couldn’t promise not to take the same action one day concerning hosting her shopping cart. So, I sat down for two weekends and crafted a shopping cart for her from scratch, coding it in PHP.

The point is: She took care of her business regardless of the resistance she encountered because she was both patient and had perseverance. On a slightly amusing front, the two companies (the Internet web site provider and the company that made the shopping cart) both went out of business a few years later due to lack of clientele.

So, that’s kind of where OnlyFans is right now. I’ve been reading very interesting asides from those in the sex worker community who have vowed to move their content to other sites, while a few others seem willing to stick it out. This action by OnlyFans may prove to be a make or break incident, but either way, it should serve as an excellent wake up call for other companies in the future that dare to buck trends. The market corrects, but it doesn’t always correct in a favorable fashion.

OnlyFans to Block Adult Content

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Unless you’ve been living under a rock, the adult content site OnlyFans has made a decision to ban future content that is adult in nature. Taken on the surface, this seems like a logical step for a company that is trying to appear more mainstream, but after unpacking this story, it appears there’s a lot going on under the surface, and the results may vary and the owls may not be what they seem.

For those who deal with these types of subjects on the surface only, it seems very straight-forward, but if you listen to the responses from those in the industry, the rhetoric ranges from “the sky is falling” to “this doesn’t change anything from the status quo.” However, there are changes coming, and yes, they are going to affect some people more than others. So, exactly how?

Let’s just put it this way: If you’re already a sex worker content creator with a huge following, the change means very little. Most of the traffic for OnlyFans rarely came through the platform itself; people didn’t find content creators by searching the site (the site was never designed to cater to that process). Instead, sex workers who already had a strong following just advertised they were on OnlyFans and then the people who were already interested in their content went there for an easy process to access more of their material. For those types of creators, there are other services available that not only replace OnlyFans, but they were there long before OnlyFans emerged on the scene. So, those content creators will make do and continue to strive as before.

Where this change makes the largest impact is on the newest demographic: Young women who gravitated towards OnlyFans after the emergence of the pandemic. At first, the large swell of creators joining the platform were mostly adult workers who had very little (or no) Internet presence. As their physical, in person business model was drying up due to the fact that men were not as easy to translate into customers while people were dying from Covid-19, much of their “activity” they would normally charge for could now be converted to virtual interactivity that they could then share for monetary rewards. And what they quickly discovered was that because OnlyFans made it possible to build a lucrative following (as the customers weren’t just someone they met on the street who might never return), they now had repeat customers who could access their content at all times without them having to actually physically maintain proximity to their clients in order to provide services and then get paid.

Because this was both lucrative and quick income, it should not surprise anyone that young women who were probably never planning to become sex workers themselves realized that there could be a lot of money to be made if they, too, hung out their shingle in this marketplace. And almost overnight, starting with strippers and cam girls and then leading to moms and repressed librarians, women were actively engaged in selling promiscuous content to horny guys (well, to anyone, but mostly guys).

The one negative that always seemed to be in the background was the stigma of doing sex work, which for naive reasons young woman seemed to believe might never happen. But as their content was on the Internet, and there is no class amongst the people who subscribe to this type of content, they started to become very surprised when their content became widespread, and future aspirations (and that wasn’t sex work) because almost impossible because of the stigma attached to this occupation. Women, with occupations ranging from doctors to school teachers, lost their jobs when their employers found out they were previously sex workers, even though the women would often try to make the argument that selling pictures of themselves naked was not sex work and then disappointed when such protests fell on deaf ears.

There was a very interesting episode involving Kevin Samuels who confronted a group of OnlyFans girls about how they needed to start banking their money soon because the cash cow of OnlyFans was not going to last forever, and those girls treated him like a moron because this Internet celebrity obviously didn’t understand the business world as well as they did. Well, this announcement from OnlyFans just yesterday indicates that he knew exactly what was going to happen, and one can only imagine how panicked these girls must be right now due to such an announcement.

What makes this somewhat tragic is that such an announcement was inevitable. It happened with Paypal, it happened with Tumblr, and it has happened with so many types of business applications that started out by appealing to the sex worker industry just to get their foot in the door before abandoning that demographic and “going legit”. And as tends to happen with most of these companies, that act of going legit will end up being their downfall because they, too, are tainted by the stigma of being a platform for sex, which is why people will avoid it like the plague if they’re not actually attracting the element that made it famous in the first place. Imagine going to an exclusive club because it always had the hottest women and let those women in free (realizing that was going to bring in customers) and then decided “we’re big enough now that we don’t need to do that” and stopped letting attractive women in for free. So they stopped coming. So would their clientele because the reason they go to those clubs is because of the overabundance of attractive women in the first place. And then the business closes.

This is why nightclubs NEVER do that.

So, it will be interesting to see if OnlyFans goes the direction of Myspace as another company takes its place, or if it somehow morphs itself into something sustainable by hosting celebrities and cooking shows. As for the many women who made their future successes contingent on the platform, hopefully they prepared for this future, already were a sex worker to begin with and can compensate by finding incoming from other revenue streams, or bite the bullet and try to re-enter the workplace environment, hoping beyond all prayers that no one ever finds out about their steamy past. In this digital age, the integration of digital technology has become crucial for success in various industries.

All I know is that I won’t be their lifeline. I’m a lot smarter these days than when I was young and stupid.