I’m a huge fan of Youtube creators, especially those who create videos about reviewing movies and television shows. I kind of got into watching this genre of Youtube shortly after my ASMR phase, which I originally got into because I had a lot of trouble getting enough sleep, or falling asleep initially.

Somehow, the Youtube algorithm made a recommendation to me years ago, pointing at a video that had some young woman reviewing a movie (probably Star Wars: A New Hope) and a relationship was born. I think I saw the actual movie three or four times in the past (right from when it was released) but since focusing on Youtube reviews, I’ve probably seen cut-up versions of that movie over one hundred times.

I should explain how a review works on Youtube. They can’t show the whole movie (as that would be illegal), but over the years the formula has been to show about forty minutes of a 90 minute to 120 minute film in a cut-up fashion with the “creator” commenting and reacting throughout that time, sometimes as additional footage or with commentary while pieces of the movie play in unison with the commenter. It’s about the next best thing to sitting in a theater with some loud individual who makes comments as the film is playing overhead. And this way, you don’t get shooshed by random people in the theater because your date is being obnoxious.

You see, years ago, before Youtube even became a thing, I used to accompany people to the movie theater (usually a young attractive woman, but sometimes guy friends), and as long as that person hasn’t seen the movie already, I seemed to be in a bit of heaven myself. I love watching the reaction of someone I’m friends with (or attracted to) as they watch a movie I’ve seen, especially if it’s their first time.

This has developed a community of commenters who make content which usually has the words “First Time Viewing” in their titles. This tells people like me that they’re discovering the magic of a movie while I get to watch their reactions. I can’t tell you how thrilled I get when I watch someone discover something for the first time (like…spoiler incoming for the two people in the universe who don’t know this already…that “Luke, I am your father! (a misquote from the movie, but you get the point.))

Over the years, I have found myself more interested in young, female reviewers, which makes a bit of sense because I’m a guy, and I just enjoy watching beautiful women more than some other guy. I don’t apologize for that.

But because of this consistency, what I have started to observe is a phenomenon that happens within this community: I’m not the only guy who also becomes fans of these young, attractive women. When I first started watching these reviews, they would generate hundreds of views whenever they plopped out another video. As time went on, the more attractive of them would tend to gain more and more followers as they released more videos. Whereas they first started out with hundreds of views, now they get tens of thousands of views, and their subscriber counts have gone from hundreds of followers to tens of thousands of followers as well. Some even higher than that.

So, it probably shouldn’t be a stretch to imagine that because these young women get a decent amount of money in revenue sharing payments with Youtube, they start to realize that they can make a great deal of money. In the beginning, it might be enough to add a substantial amount of money to their monthly paychecks they would get from a regular job to being enough to survive on this income alone. And then as they gain more followers, they start getting offered sponsorship deal (like a professional athlete) to sell brands to their followers, which makes the money flow even better, so that they start to think of themselves as some sort of rock star, bringing in more money than they ever could raise just doing regular work.

The same thing happened with some of the ASMR stars. They became huge stars and made a great deal of money for themselves. It was a different sort of influencer community, but lucrative.

However, one of the things I started to notice is that this coincided with the advent of the adult work community. Only Fans became a thing at this time, which I don’t think was much of a coincidence. Before that, the sponsorship “deal” was the general ending of the road to fame in this crowd. But then, after Only Fans, suddenly there was a much more lucrative direction one of these creators could latch onto going forward.

When this tie occurred in the beginning, a young woman would link her Only Fans connection in her videos, and her income stream would increase dramatically. However, at some point Youtube struck back against this and started removing content of young women who tried to link their dirty content with their wholesome Youtube videos. So, they had to become a bit more elusive about such connections.

But the fact that they made such great strides with Youtube served to funnel young boys and men into their adult content, and some of them really wanted to build such connected communities. And usually they did that by linking their Youtube content to their own web sites, which then had the linkage to their Only Fans content.

I’ll be honest. While I tended to flock towards young, attractive streamers, I have never been a fan of adult content. I appreciated them for their content reviews, and I have had no desire to see them naked or worse. Now, I understand I don’t speak for the majority, but I am capable of speaking for me. I have a lot of respect and admiration for those who create those videos, but once they cross that line, my immediate (and unchangeable reaction) is to unsubscribe to them on Youtube. And even though the algorithm tries to recommend their content a few times after, once the algorithm discovers that I don’t go back down that rabbit hole, I never see anything about, or from them, again. A year or so down the line, the algorithm might try to recommend them to me again, but once I don’t follow that suggestion, they disappear from any of the movies offered to me.

One of the things that I hate more than anything is when a young woman decides to go down that route. I completely lose respect for her, and unfortunately, it’s something that never comes back.

It’s very similar to the struggle many young women are discovering today. They see Only Fans as an easy way to make money. A lot of money. But once they’ve gone down that road, they can’t ever gain those fans and followers again. It’s the same thing with relationships. No matter how attractive she is, once she takes that road, she has serious trouble ever finding someone to date for the future. Oh, she’ll get a lot of guys interested in her, but definitely not interested in an actual relationship. And that’s something they discover when it’s too late to turn back. Higher quality guys, discovering even a hint of such a promiscuous back ground, want nothing to do with them no matter how much they wish it wasn’t that way.

I’m the same way with the videos I watch on a daily basis. And it’s not like I intend to date or marry any of these women; I mean, honestly, they have no idea who I am in real life, so it’s not like we were dating with the possibility of ever being married.

I just don’t invest my time in someone who goes that direction. And that means even in watching their videos.

I don’t indulge in paying any attention to porn stars, so why would I invest in knowing anything more about an Only Fans model? Just not my thing.

And as it’s me investing my time, I prefer someone who appears much more wholesome than that. And because it’s my time and my dime, it’s my choice.

It was her choice, too. And as I read through the comments in their videos, I realize I’m not the only one.

I’ve also noticed that when I read such comments after their videos, those comments quickly disappear. Which means women creators care, too. But by then, it’s too late.